Wow….I can’t believe we are exactly 100 days till our wedding…we are entering the double digit countdown ahhh!! It seems like it was just last April when we got engaged and we thought we had all the time in the world. This past year or so, wedding planning has taught me so much about myself, Nelli, and how we work together as a team. It’s been challenging and stressful to plan a wedding (ESPECIALLY a multicultural one) and I didn’t get it before but now I do. Some of the key decisions that we made for our wedding are:
- What’s the definition of FUSION – We wanted ONE ceremony. This was really important to me and Nelli. A lot of fusion weddings have 2 ceremonies to celebrate each culture. I really like that idea and think it’s a good way to incorporate everything but for me personally, it didn’t speak to me. It was important to me to show our close friends and family that we are committed to blending our cultures in our marriage and we were going to showcase that through one ceremony. We got a lot of doubters and I myself am working tirelessly to ensure that the ceremony script is seamless but I have a great feeling that it will turn out beautifully. I think it’s also nice to have one ceremony, because we will be hand pick a few traditions that mean the most to us and have a significant message that we believe in. I also love the fact that me and Nelli are working together to develop a script from scratch so it will truly be unique and represent who we are and what our union represents. Lastly, the officiants will be family members and not priests or pastors and I think this is a great idea to make the overall ceremony more personal.
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Our experience in Trinidad was one of a kind and definitely felt like we were at home. The beginning to our trip was a tad rocky though. We arrived a day earlier than Phylicia so we stayed at a hotel close to downtown. As soon as we hopped off the plane and headed for customs our jaw dropped: the line to get out of the airport looked miles long. We ended up staying 4 HOURS in the airport just to get through customs – very frustrating time for us and other people. It was utter chaos: people were skipping, complaining, cutting, arguing; this debacle ended up being front page news in Trinidad next day. Luckily, our trip only went uphill from there.
The taxi ride to our hotel was lovely, there were 2 other ladies in our car who were coming back to their homeland Trinidad and were able to give us tons of advice about where to eat close to our hotel. Even though we were emotionally drained, our stomachs weren’t so as soon as we layed down our bags in our room we took a short 5 minute taxi ride to the street food they recommended. We ended up getting a couple Trinidad staples (corn soup, potato pie, roti, etc) and shared it between us. The food was delicious, veg friendly, Indian oriented and very cheap. The next day we had breakfast and explored a little of the surrounding areas before Phylicia’s friend’s cousin picked us up.
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Hi everyone, I just had an amazing experience with my husband and my new friend Aman Kaur. WE DID A PODCAST EPISODE! Actually 2! Nelli and I talked about our experience as a Blindian couple and I’m so glad we got the opportunity. I am a really big fan of this podcast because it features people that are in interracial Indian marriages! How lovely. I’ve listened to each episode and it’s so awesome to relate to people and hear how they went through the challenges and joys of being married to an Indian! Please listen to our episodes below and let me know what you think. The episode will open in a new window so you don’t need anything else (tech wise) to listen. Also, click the source to go to Aman’s website to listen to other amazing stories.
Podcast episode (Part 1)
Podcast episode (Part 2)
Source: Moving forward and on Francesca & Raghav Part 2 – IIM027 | Indian Interracial Marriages Podcast
2015 was definitely the year of the weddings. We went to 5 weddings across the United States. WOW. I think for the month of October we had one weekend at home and the rest we were flying somewhere for somebody’s nuptials except for my birthday trip to New York (SO much fun!). Me and Nelli didn’t get to do much international trips with the exception of India with all the stateside travel but I have some of the best memories from this year. One wedding was in New Orleans, another in Utah, another in the Carolina, BDAY in New York, oh and I took a girls trip to Mexico!
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